Controlling emotions

I have a friend who have an emotional struggle at work. The problem is not about her work, but her struggle is her partner at work. Yep! She is quite in-love with her guy partner. They've been together everyday for almost 9hrs a day, and seven days a week including attending at the sunday worship service.

Her problem is not bout falling in-love with the wrong guy.. her problem is that she is not quite sure if that is love or not. First thing is that the guy is soooo much kind to her, a gentlemen and they are both growing as Christian. She is afraid that maybe she is just fun of the guy for being sooo kind to her and she is not sure if the guy also wants her or maybe the guy will reject her if she honestly tell it to him.

For my advice and point of view... Don't let your feelings control you. Instead, you should be in-control of your feelings. It's like anger. Of course you can control your angerness. If you let your anger control or swallow you, you will surely be defeated. You should always use your head/Wisdom and not heart cause heart is just mostly emotional. Pray to God, pray that you can discern and take hold of your feelings. I know that opposite sex attracts each other and its really possible specially in the case of my friend. But we should always look on the prons and cons first and be prayerful that thy Will be done.

Let us always focus on God's love as said on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 and let us always read our Bible and pray to God for wisdom everyday.
"The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom" Psalm111:10 .